Helping you feel alive and fulfilled in your relationship

Welcome, and thank you for visiting my website.

My name is Barbara, I am an experienced and qualified Relationship Therapist offering face-to-face and secure online video counselling with flexible daytime and evening appointments

I hold a Master (MA) in Relationship Therapy, I am an accredited Relate Practitioner, a member of the BACP Register and an Accredited Member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (MNCPS). I am fully insured. I see Couples, Families and Individuals from my Private practice in Oxshott, Surrey, or Online for international and UK based clients.

I have many years of experience in a variety of settings including Relate Centres, colleges and a substance abuse clinic. Before transitioning to my vocation, I had an international career in Finance and Human Resources. I work in English and in French.

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How can counselling help?

Starting counselling may feel uncomfortable and for most people making the first appointment is the most daunting part. Counselling lets you talk about how you feel, away from home life, school or work. It can help you reflect on your choices and take decisions that feel right for you. Ultimately to be able to enjoy your life again.

My goal is that you leave each session with clarity and renewed hope

“Happiness is not something ready-made, it comes from your actions.” — Dalai Lama, XI

Why come to therapy?

My clients often feel stuck, alone, anxious, misunderstood or unloved. Online sessions can be a simple private way to begin making change. Individual therapy will help them understand their options and make the best decisions to feel fulfilled again. Couples may feel angry after being betrayed, sad after losing a loved one, struggling to live with someone showing destructive behaviours, scared to trust again, resenting aging together. Couple therapy repairs relationships if both partners accept the need to change or mutually accept themselves. It can also help to gain a better understanding as to why the relationship can’t carry on. Families may come to therapy to learn to blend together, or to navigate a separation amicably and minimising the impact on the children, or to share family secrets in a safe place. Family counselling is gives everyone a fair and equal voice and practice empathy and agree practical next steps.

Does it work?

Therapy works when you accept you can’t change others but only yourself. Research and my experience show online therapy can be as effective as in-person work. What matters most is your commitment to the process.Therapy will empower you to think, act, and interact in a more fulfilling way. It will help you move forward with more confidence and self-love.

How many sessions will I need?

Counselling requires focus and commitment. We will agree a plan that suits your goals. Short term (min 6 sessions) or open-ended therapy. Online appointments are flexible and easy access from the comfort of your own home. Consistence and regularity makes progress smoother.

What issues can counselling help with?

People come to me for help with a wide range of issues. Here are a few of the more common difficulties. If what you are facing is not on the list, get in touch, I might be able to help or signpost you

Addiction

Affairs and betrayals

Anger management

Anxiety

Asperger's syndrome

Bereavement Bullying

Blended family related issues

Couples issues Cross cultural relationships

Depression

Emotional abuse

Family issues

Low self-esteem

Passive aggressive behaviour

Pre-nuptial counselling

Relationship issues

Self-harm

Separation and divorce

Survivor of Sexual abuse

Stress Trauma

Work-related stress

Get in touch

Start with a free 15 minute online audio or video conversation

Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about how relationship therapy works, or to arrange an initial assessment appointment. This enables us to discuss the process and whether I am the right therapist for you.


You can call me on 07919972430 if you prefer to leave a message or speak to me first. Alternatively you can sent me an email

All enquires are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.

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My Location

My private practice is based in Oxshott, Surrey, where I see clients from the surroundi Cobham, Leatherhead, Esher, Bookham and East Horsley areas. I will provide exact location details when we arrange our counselling sessions. If you require further information please get in touch.

Fees & availability

Each session lasts 1 full hour.

  • Individuals : £ 90
  • Couples : £ 100
  • Family: £ 120

I can provide a free of charge initial 15 minute conversation on Zoom or over the phone to answer your questions and to see if I am the best suited therapist for you. Get in touch to check my availability.


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